Valentines Day?

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After 45 years of marriage, Valentines Day is just meaningless - because every  day of our 45 years has been better than Valentines Day. Yes, really.

 Every day we each make the effort to meet the other's needs, we don't need one special day. Love is an act of the will, not a feeling. It's a decision, a choice.

 We meant those promises we vowed before God way back then.

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